Surrogate

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 So.. on the people of anytown usa group there are two gay guys seeking a surrogate woman to impregnate with their sperm so they can have a kid.  Compensation indicated to the tune of $50,000 plus all medical expenses.  That borders on being considered a puppy mill for humans.  They want to have a kid.  They want to be parents.  They don't want to adopt a kid but want a kid of their own.  But the child won't be their own.  It will be part of the surrogate - AKA mother - forever. The mother will also be part of the kid and the kid will always be part of the mother.  Not sure about the quality of candidate to be had on people of any town usa groups, but hey - they might get lucky.  That's suck a risky proposition.  What if the lady wants to keep the kid after she has it.  She's being used - whoops - compensated for the use of her womb.  Just a business transaction.  I wonder if they're open to a surrogate with tattoos?  A lesbian couple?

There wasn't a mean comment in all the responses.  People were extremely supportive and interested in helping.  

Should gay people have the opportunity to be parents?  To another human?  There's a reason it takes a man and a woman to make a baby and to bring new life into this world.  Because it's a fundamental natural law.  Same sex couples should get started with a dog.  We got started with cats before we had kids.  Maybe they already have a pet and they're bored - ready for the next logical challenge?

Two people who love each other want to start a family.  Is it any different for same sex couples?  Is it any different that two people having a kid out of wedlock.  The two state they are married.  

Cognitive dissonance.  My mind is blown.  How does one reconcile a conservative mindset in modern times.  The world has changed.  Should that change be embraced or rejected?  Live and let live?  

I don't know - like parenting is a gift from god to a man and a woman.  Not a man and a man and a woman.  

I shoulda been born in the 50s - then I'd be on my way out sooner, rather than later.



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